I hate to say it, but it is a sad, sad situation in America and I assume the rest of the world. I truly believe that a lot of the world’s problems come down to the breakdown of…The family. I’m not sure if that word still exists today…at least not in the sense that it did 50 or 60 years ago. There is not the solid Oak structure of a family tree as there used to be in a Father, Mother, and children for every two generations. The roles of the father and mother are split between “stepsfather/mother” “boyfriend/girlfriends,” and even just “lover.”
As a father, I blame much of this on the father role. Men are weak today. I’m not sure if it is because of the “picture of the father” that the media presents or if the media presents that picture because that is what is true. Either way, the man in today’s world, the father, is weak. What most men today think is strong, is simply only a fool’s strength. He is uncommitted to his wife and children, and is enthralled by video games or another addiction. He is lazy. IF he does work a regular job, he comes home and is “too tired” to spend time with his wife and children. He does not hold to promises, because things are just too busy and too hard. He is not willing to stand up for what is right. He would rather fit in, than be put aside. He does not want to show weakness, because that is “not being strong.”
As the father fails, it trickles first and foremost to the wife. It is God’s intention for the man to love, serve, cherish, and uphold his wife. After all, scripture compares man to his wife in the same aspect as Christ to the church. This no longer happens. So, the wife is weak, frail, unfulfilled, and needy. She finds alternate ways of making up for that.
Next, the kids are the final recipient of this virus strain. They indirectly and unintentionally learn from the structure and relationship of the parents. I truly believe this is another part of God’s design and desire. However, when that example is broken, guess what happens to the children. They find alternate ways of making up for that. The need that they have for a stable, full, and nurturing parental structure goes unfulfilled and outside teaching makes it’s way into their learning.
In today’s world, we are more concerned with saving our planet than saving ourselves and our families. Trees are dying every day. They are breaking and withering. Decades and even centuries of families that have built strong bases emotionally, physically, and spiritually for their offspring to grow upon are disappearing. They are being lost and forgotten in a world that is now “too busy and doesn’t have enough time” to stop and breathe. These trees that are dying are chopped down at no one else’s fault than that of the tree itself. When the wind even just whispers a breeze through the branches, the tree itself is already too weak to withstand it. What should be a simple breeze that merely moves and sways the branches, is more like that of a tornado cracking, breaking, and falling the weak ”strength” that was nearly almost dead already.
Where beautiful forests once stood of great sturdy trees, there now lies a field of grass and weeds and little sapplings trying to grow…trying to make it through yet another winter…another thunderstorm. Continuing to fail and fall and attempt to grow again…removing themselves further and further from the soil in which their roots need to take hold.